If you think about it logically, it had to be the behaviour you produced. You DID something, whether it was a decision that you made or action that you took, you produced this behaviour and that caused the result in your life. "I did nothing" doesn’t count. You can’t do anything, for as long as you are alive. Perhaps you spent day watching TV and you would refer to it as "I did nothing whole day", but this would not be the correct/precise description of your actions, would it?

Your results are the effect of your thinking and your behaviour and there can’t be more on the effect side than it is on the cause side.  Every thought or action you send into the universe must come back. That is why we say that you should always think positive thoughts, say good things to everyone, treat everyone with respect and love... and all those things will by Law come back to you. If you concentrate on the cause, you never need to worry about the effect - let the nature take care of the effect as that is what it does by default and effortlessly.

Sadly, most people in the world are on the Effect side of this statement. And just so you know, there is no problem with that, that’s ok. It’s a matter of choice, however, on one side, we have reasons and on the other side we have results.  Reasons (for not getting the results), or Results. And some people have very good reasons for not succeeding. And the reasons might be; "Oooh, my background, my family, the economy, bad government... mmmm .... my husband, my kids, my father, my mother, my education, and so on... These are all reasons.

But you see, the question is when you are going to be 85, or 90, or 95, or 140 years old, and look back at your life, how valuable will be those excuses? How satisfying will it be to say: "Oooo .... if it wasn’t for ....." and you fill in the blanks. And that’s really not satisfying.  Be on the Cause side of life, be the Cause for all your results (good ones and the ones you are not so proud of) in life and your life will never be the same again. You see, most people are on the Cause side of life when they did something they are proud of and on the Effect side when they get the opposite results. This is just a way for them to feel better, playing a responsible role, taking the credit for all the good things they created in their lives AND at the same time playing a victim, rejecting the responsibility for all the other results that they don’t like!

One would have to be quite a hypocrite to live life like this, yet most people do by dishing out a believable picture to them selves. We call this rationalization — rational lies!  The good results in my life — I created them! The ones I don’t like — they happened to me, I am the victim, I got dealt those cards in my life, it's beyond me, its higher power, I had no say, etc...
What a childish game I say! Accept the responsibility and look for the learning’s, rather than hide behind your pride and reject the fact that you are the Cause for your behaviour which causes Results in your life. You see, if you reject the Cause, you close yourself for learning’s - there won't be any lessons for you there if you didn’t do it in the first place!  And you will probably create the same result again, until you learn what you needed in order to grow and expand.

And by Learning’s, I really mean Resources. Learning’s equal valuable resourceful strategies, decisions, beliefs that you can utilize in the future so that whatever happened in the past won’t repeat itself. There won’t be a need. You’ve learned, you’ve grown, you’ve developed, you’ve moved on. That’s what I mean when I say learning’s.  Your comfort zone is living in an illusion that you and everything else in your life can stay the way it is. And in our Nature, nothing can stay the way it is. Everything either grows or dies. You can’t just be... we need learning’s in order to grow. The question is "Which side of the Cause and Effect equation are you on? Are you on the Effect side, where things are happening to you, when you have no power to change anything, when you are a victim?"

Or are you on the Cause side, where you are in charge of your life and the results that you are creating? Mind you though, you can’t play this game half way through — you are either 100% on the Cause side for every single result that you created in your life, whether it’s your health, relationships, bank account or anything else! The moment you exclude any result you created stating that it wasn’t you or that it happened to you... you would be stepping on the Effect side of life, you now, the hypocrite side, changing the rules as you see it fit.

Clients will come to me on the Effect side — almost always. And they will blame the government, the economy or who knows what else for the results they have in their lives. I need my clients on the Cause side first, or there is nothing for me to work with unless they bring me the government or the economy to work with and cause change.
Mind you, this is not to play the blame game — that would be silly. I am not saying that you created it all, all the bad things that happened to you. What I am saying is, the sum total of your conscious choices plus your unconscious choices put you where you are today. It’s about taking the responsibility (even when you can’t explain it logically) for your results and seeking for learning’s, growing, expanding. This is just empowering in every way and a very good and beneficial mindset to adopt.